Yes, Tony Campolo is my Dad. He’s also one of my all-time favorite people and the best in person communicator I’ve ever met. We’ve worked together on lots of ministry projects and at the end of my Christian career I served as the executive director of his ministry, EAPE. While my deconversion has been very difficult for him, my dad has been incredibly understanding and our relationship is still strong and mutually supportive. In fact a documentary film was made, Leaving My Father’s Faith, which truly captures the spirit of our ongoing conversation about his faith, my values, and the wisdom of loving people even with whom you seriously disagree.

Whoa there!  I call myself a secular humanist these days not because I’m angry with God or fed up with the Church, but rather because I simply can’t and don’t believe in supernatural forces. Rest assured, I’m still grateful for Christianity, since that’s where I learned almost everything I know about community building. Just as I no longer live in Philadelphia, but still speak with that accent and follow the Eagles, I’m proud of where I came from spiritually and I still root for the best kinds of Jesus followers. I know those folks are praying for me, and I’m grateful for that expression of their love.

Every label has its drawbacks, but I avoid “atheist” and “skeptic” because they carry so many negative connotations and are often mistaken for anti-theism, which simply doesn’t work for someone like me. Technically I am agnostic about the existence of God, but that word suggests much more uncertainty than I actually feel. I’m too aware of my cognitive biases to call myself a freethinker, and even if I wasn’t, my inner marketer tells me that moniker is too old-fashioned. So then, as unfortunately anthropo-chauvinistic as it sounds, calling myself a humanist is the best way I know to immediately communicate that a) I don’t believe in God and b) I’m actively committed to a positive, life-affirming value system.

The American Humanist Association has a detailed manifesto that’s pretty good, but to me humanism is simply a commitment to pursue love and goodness for their own sakes, instead of because you believe in a God who will reward you for it. As the humanist statesman Robert Ingersoll once put it, “Reason, Observation, and Experience – the holy trinity of Science – have taught us that happiness is the only good, that the time to be happy is now, and that the way to be happy is to make others so.” That’s not much of an answer, of course. Giving a better one is what the rest of this website – and I hope the rest of my life – is all about.

Well, according to my job description, I provide regular inspiration, pastoral care, and supportive fellowship and service opportunities to UC students, faculty, and staff members who are exploring or actively pursuing secular goodness as a way of life. All of which means I do most of the same things more traditional clergy members do, like showing up in times of trouble and officiating at weddings and funerals. I also interact with lots of other people around the world, most of whom have nothing to do with UC.

Now that’s a good question! Send me a note and let me know what’s on your mind. Don’t be shy. After all, if you want to make the most of your life, I’m on your side already.

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